I appreciate and value honesty and truth. Knowing what is, in its actuality, allows me to deal with a situation in an effective way. I am able to be confident in decisions I make and why I make them.
The rationale for lying that angers me most are manipulation and deception. These are the sources of lies I have been most often confronted with in my life. If I sense manipulation or deception, I instinctively harden and rebel. I do not need to be told what to do, where to go, how, when, and why.
Why would I need that? Because I don't know better? If I knew better, I wouldn't make the right decision? "Your" decision? Or, maybe if I am left to my own, I would make decisions that would interfere with what "you" are doing?
Not only am I referring to lies on a micro level, but on a macro level as well. Consider if there is anything in your life you do although you have no idea why you do it. What are you partaking of? What are you contributing to? What are you condoning or supporting? Are you sure what you know is accurate, or is it enough for you to continue?
Maybe you'd rather not know at all?
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